It's Summer
Go make a memory.
I went home for Christmas, to the house that I grew up in. Going back was something after all these years…
And I thought of all those summers I paced that porch and swore I’d die of boredom there.
And I thought of what I’d give to feel another summer linger, where a day feels like a year.
And I let time go by so slow, and I made every moment last.
And I thought about years. How they take so long, and they go so fast.
These lyrics from songwriter Beth Neilsen Chapman remind us to slow down, enjoy the moment, and make a memory.
How many times have we found ourselves busy shopping for school supplies in late August and asking “Where did the summer go?” The summer is filled with hectic schedules, trying to fit in all that we want to accomplish during what is supposed to be a stress free, relaxing summer. Instead many feel the pressure to do it all.
September arrives and we often are not only tired, but also disappointed. We realize that the summer was so busy that we had little time to sit back, relax and just be.
If you don’t want to experience another “summer hangover” come September, then start by creating a Summer Bucket List. If you have kids, have them participate in the idea process – it’s fun! Ask your partner for input, and make the formation of your list one of your first summer memories of 2014.
Looking for ideas? Here are some suggestions. Make homemade popsicles; watch an outdoor movie; go to a local beach you’ve never visited; make homemade bubbles; or feed the ducks.
So you don’t spend the month of September wondering not only where the summer went, but where your money went as well, be sure to keep expectations reasonable and costs low. Your ultimate goal should be focused on time spent with loved ones, being good to yourself, and finding joy in moments, rather than unattainable goals.
Summers are long, but the reality is they go so fast. So do what you can to make this one count!
