Valentine’s Day

A How-To Guide. By Mike Trittin.

Ah yes, Valentines Day, both beloved and dreaded by many. I’ve planned extravagant dates, wallowed in my singleness, and one year grabbed beers with buddies before seeing Die Hard. This year, several friends have asked my opinion on how they should plan to spend their day, thus inspiring me to write this little “how-to guide.”

Ladies

I know we don’t seem so simple, but we value you more than you think we do. Guys don’t normally think Valentine’s Day is about them at all; holidays surrounded by the marketing of roses and chocolate don’t really speak to anything “macho.” Thus, something special for your guy goes a long way.

• What’s important to him? Golf? Football? Movies? Do something that you know is specifically special to him. Maybe it’s concert tickets or cooking dinner for him and two buddies while they watch the game. Support something important to him; it’ll go a long way.

• Do something that tells him you value and support him. Knowing that our sweetheart believes in us is huge. We crave respect and appreciation.

Gentlemen

Guys, this is your chance to “wow” your sweetheart.

• Plan Ahead - Don’t do what I did and wait until the last minute to make a reservation. You won’t get one, and you’ll end up eating Taco Time (trying to spark up some romance with massive heartburn is next to impossible). Make a reservation early at a spot you know she’ll love. Do your research if you need to; her friends will tell you what she likes.

• Do Something Special - After dinner, take a walk. Have a wine/dessert picnic at a pre-planned bonfire. Stay away from clichè. Do something nobody’s ever done for her before. Making memories is key.

• Think Different for Gifts - Listen for clues on what she’d like as a gift. Maybe she needs new boots, a replacement watch, or has been mentioning how she wished she could go for a spa day. Take notes and show you’ve been listening; you’ll be shocked at how well this will pay off for you. Oh, and always accompany it with flowers.

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